Blog Note


Blog Note - March 11th, 2012 -


My goodness -- what a bad housekeeper I am! I could have sworn I'd written a note, but it appears that I have not...


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Love,

MK; 10:16 AM

=^__^=


Saturday, October 16, 2010

Journal 50 - WWII; Meeting Mom; Am I Cute, or Am I Russian?; and Birthdays

Journal 50


10-15-10

Park Pobedy / WWII Museum Excursion

Statue of St. George

Huge Walkway/Area up to the Statue/Museum


Made me think of the "Victory Day" adventure. =O-o=


"Are you a tutor?" (One of the Vladimir kids thought I was Russian. Even after he heard me speak, actually.)


Museum


Personal Testaments - Journals, Etc. - Incredible

Also finally found a lighter. -- It's not that I smoke or anything, but I've seen some cool ones -- and this one is even more awesome! I'll put up a photo later. It was funny though -- I noticed there was a little arrow sticker, pointing to where the flame would issue from, which said, "Attention - Flame." Ha ha ha!


**********


Found out why I hadn't heard from Vitaly - apparently he got awful sick while he was still in Spain. He said he's hoping to start work again on Monday.


**********


Talked with Charlie -- that was really nice. =^__^=


**********


Found, "To Kill A Mockingbird" online -- been reading it. [This was after I found, "Lamb" -- AWESOME!!!]


**********


Talked with Mum

Little brother was in a fender-bender. Glad he's okay, and the car's not too bad off.


***********


Party at the Marine House

"It's girls!!!" *shocked face* "EATING!!" *more shocked face* "… *JUNK FOOD*!!!!" *most shocked face of all*


Natasha and I were eating some potato chips that Barry had put out for us. She hadn't eaten anything all day, and I hadn't had anything since breakfast. So we were… Snacking enthusiastically, I suppose. When Barry came back and saw that the chips were gone, he looked at us, surprised, and I said the above. He gave us more chips. Ha ha ha!


**********


Met one of the new guys; cool guy.


He's from Michigan -- and after 10 seconds, when he didn't show me on his hand (a Michiganer's "map") where he was from, I asked him why he hadn't. He looked at me, surprised for a moment, and said, "I'm surprised you know that. Most people who aren't from Michigan don't know about that."


I explained to him that my ballroom dance partner from college had been from Michigan, and that's where I learned about the habit.


Good times.


**********


Totally confused an Embassy worker about my Nationality:


I was chatting, in Russian, with Natasha; he came up to order something, and I switched to English, in order to joke with Don Nachos (who was tending bar at that point) and the embassy worker. Embassy guy stopped, looked at me, and said, "Are you Russian??"


"Nope."


"You speak English with NO accent! -- No? But you were just speaking Russian, weren't you?"


"Yes."


"And you sounded [like you were Russian]…!"


"I'm an American!" *big smile* "And I can assure you, I don't sound 'Russian,' to the Russians."


Natasha gave me a look for that, I protested, and then we compromised, "Ok, sometimes I sound alright." =^__^=''


*****


Another employee, in from Washington DC for a few weeks also played the, "Where are you from?" game with me. When it was established that I was an American, he tried to divine where I was from. He ruled out the South on the first go [big mistake!], and then said, "New York."


I've never been to New York!


He said, "California," next -- which is close enough to Washington State, for that kind of game. Then I told him I was, in fact, partially from the South. That was funny.


**********


Salsa!! Danced with Q and Eric


Merengued with Natasha


Bachata-ed with Q and Christine (a girl I'd never met before -- one of the other guys' friends)


**********


Chatted with Q - he asked me if I still stayed in touch with Lawson, Williams, and Conard. Told me (Teased me?) I should go to Rome.


Also, related to Q -- he introduced me to his, "Mom" tonight**. She is SO cool!!! She's also a Dragon (Chinese Zodiac) -- so we bonded some. *laughs* We were joking around, about Q/The "son" aspect -- "They grow up so fast!" / "You're introducing me to your Mom!" / "She's [meaning me] the perfect girl!"


[**There is an, "Adopt-A-Marine" program here -- so Marines can have a bit of a family life; go out and do things, have dinners, or what have you. They affectionately refer to one and other as, "This is my "Mom,"", or, "That's my "son.""]


I actually met her twice, but she appeared not to remember the first time. When Q brought me up to her again, she took one look at me, looked at Q, and said, "She's *cute!!!* I love her eyes!!" And reiterated this a few times. [I took it as quite the compliment, 'cause she was gorgeous herself!]


Not too long after, when Q disappeared for something, I almost felt like I was getting the "3rd Degree" from a Mum, because as soon as he left, she looked at me and asked, "So, do you *like* Q?"


I blinked, and responded, "As a friend??"


Though my meaning seemed to be taken as, "Friend," and I said, "Well, I'm friends with all the guys here!!!!"


The shocked look on her face, and her friend's face told me that they didn't think I meant a platonic kind of friendship, and I quickly explained, "OH!!! Oh, no, no, no! As in, "just friends," not… Oh my…"


That cleared up, everything was rosy again.


**********


On the way out the door, I got to have one more, "Nationality" go -- As Mulzoff and I were waiting for everyone who was leaving to exit the House, William and two of his guests came out. (They were slightly older -- maybe in their later 30s?) The woman took one look at me, and exclaimed something to the effect of, "Look at this one!! They're all so beautiful! Isn't she beautiful!?" She asked William, and her husband (?). "The Russian Women, they're all gorgeous!"


Mulzoff and Williams laughed a little to themselves, and William responded to the woman's question, "Yes, she's beautiful -- but she's not Russian."


"She's not?!?! But she looks so -- "


"She's an American."


*look of shock* "NO!" She looked at me again, then said, "Oh, I'm so embarrassed! But you have such a Russian Face!"


It was pretty hilarious. I told her not to worry, "That's been happening a lot, lately."


When Natasha and I were discussing it earlier -- my being mistaken for Russian, and pressed for if I have Russian blood -- she said, "You don't have a very, "American" face. You have a very European face -- could be a Russian face."


**********


The night wasn't quite over yet, for compliments and surprises -- as Mulzoff and I hit the stairs, we passed Q's "Mom" again, and she immediately told the group she was with how cute I was, and now much she liked me. I'm basically adorable is how it goes. =^///^=


Somehow or other, I think someone suggested that I might be dating someone or involved with someone there, and as Meraz was walking by us at that exact time, he and Mulzoff both came to my "defense," saying, "Oh no, it's not like that." And Meraz continued, "She's our Salsa Instructor!!!"


The group of people looked surprised for a moment -- as in, "The Marines have a *Salsa Instructor??*" -- and I said, "Oh, don't make it sound like that! I just do salsa for fun! It's not even my specialty!"


We continued down the stairs -- and from behind me, once more, I heard a strain of, "Isn't she just so cute?"


**********


Of course, on a party night, I suppose things can't ever end smoothly -- I went to take my badge off, to turn it in and get my passport -- only to discover… … I had no badge. It had been on me no more than 10 minutes before hand! I called Mulzoff, who'd gone back inside, to try to get everyone else who was going out that night, out the door -- and luckily he found it -- lying outside, not a 2 minute walk from where I was! Funny how that works.


*****


I didn't go out with everybody -- waited for them all to be dropped off, and Mulzoff made sure that Alex took me home. =^__^= So kind of them.


Got home, had my dinner, and then, while I should have gone straight to bed… I started reading, "To Kill A Mockingbird" again… And went to bed at 5 AM. = @_@ =


**************


Completely aside for a moment, while at the House, I started talking with Natasha, and with Mulzoff a little bit, about birthday celebrations. Not too many people knew that my birthday was coming up (Monday - the 18th) - and there are a few birthdays soon -- so we're all trying to figure out how to celebrate, I suppose.


Mulzoff had a really cool idea of renting a dacha for a weekend - we both excitedly concurred that we could make fires -- which leads to roasting things, and S'mores! Also, Mulzoff brightened suddenly -- as did I, having the same idea -- and he said, "You could make the cookies -- with the -- the thing!!"


This refers to the Christmas Belgian Waffle Cookies that are made with a special iron - they are a family tradition that I thank my lucky stars was passed along to me, through no small act of faith and kindness on my Aunt Becky and Uncle Bob's parts. I'm quite sure my 15-odd years of devotion to their cookies every Christmas helped demonstrate my earnestness in taking part in their tradition. =^__^=


Anyways, I brought one of the irons with me to Moscow (THAT was fun, in airport security…), and totally intend to make the cookies at Christmas, as is Tradition.


The prospect of a fire, plus the iron, however, made us both think about making said cookies.


But Tradition stopped me….


I looked at Mulzoff and said, "But you know… These cookies are only supposed to be made at Christmas… I've NEVER had them at any other time of the year…"


Thinking quickly, Mulzoff countered, "This is Russia! They mess everything up! They don't even celebrate Christmas at the right time!!" (<-- This was a facetious comment based on cultural differences. The Russian Orthodox Christmas holiday occurs on January 7th.)


So, there's a distinct possibility that the Waffle Cookies may get made, as Birthday Celebrations, too. But! Uncle Bob and Aunt Becky, if we *do* make them, I will make sure that the first 12 (in the traditionally numbered stacks) are saved until Christmas. (Or the 12 Days of it, anyway.)


The cookies aside, I do hope that we can celebrate at the Dacha. That would be fun.


**************


Love,

Moscow Kitty


=^__^=


Journal 49 - Sex and Dance Lessons

Journal 49


10-14-10


Class with Russians - first class all week.


American Club - about sex

Long story short: Americans *talk* a lot about it, and almost seem to get some kind of pleasure from talking about it, when we are with a group of friends -- but we can't stand to *see* it. E.g. - We collectively frown on public displays of affection (if we see two people making out in public); we won't allow nudity in our advertisements or in basic network shows; etc.


Essentially, concerning the, "Why are Russians/Europeans so comfortable with being nude (on a beach/at a Sauna), while Americans are not?" question, I said:

"Americans are never taught to separate their bodies from sex and sexuality -- if we're nude, or in a state of undress, it *must* be sexual. Russians, for instance, may be completely comfortable being nude in a Banya (like a Sauna) -- because for them, there is no sexuality associated with the action. It's something healthy. But an American in that situation, would balk at being naked [in public], because to them, a naked body is automatically associated with sex."


I continued, "A herd mentality may help -- that is, if you have only one, or a few, Americans, in a group of people for whom the action is normal -- they may go along with it, seemingly fine, because they tell themselves, "This is normal for everyone else." But you will probably find that they will still be a little uncomfortable about it."


Practice -


Okay, and not. I'm really getting frustrated -- Still no word from Vitaly -- I have questions and concerns, and they are not getting addressed, because I have no one to ask them of. I'm seriously starting to consider seeing if it's bad etiquette to take lessons with other people while Vitaly is out of town. I can't just keep starting and stopping lessons like this. :(


Tried dancing with Roma (potential partner) again -- he came up and asked if I wanted to try some things again.


He told me Larissa told him not to take a long time to decide [with whom he wanted to dance] -- so he said he would be trying out with the other girls this weekend, and on Monday, he would let me know what he decided.


So, we'll see, I suppose.


**********


Went Home


Thursday, October 14, 2010

Journal 48 - Ask And Ye Shall Receive

Journal 48


10-13-10


Still no word from Vitaly. :| This really sucks.


Found my legwarmers!!! Could not believe it!!!!


Practice --


Frustration is abounding from this lack of coaching. I feel like I'm starting to slip again. Some things start to feel good, or better -- and then they disappear. Or I have questions about how to do something, and I've been unable to address those concerns all week. = @_@ = I'm trying to just buck up and keep going, but being that I know I'm the kind of person who does best under a teacher, and does not do so well when left to my own devices, this is beginning to be a bit problematic.


On the bright side, the "group class" Spin Exercise (Rumba - Spiral, 3 step turn, 3 step turn, back rock -- repeat) is getting easier, and tonight at practice, I went through few rounds of it with no problem. Now, if I could just get *Vitaly's* exercise working on a more constant basis, I'd be in Heaven. It worked once the other night, and a few times tonight, albeit slowly -- but when I try to do it to music, I get stuck right in the middle. Which brings us back to, "I'd love to ask about this… But my coach is gone…" Argh.


*****


Spoke with Larissa after practice.


*****


Katya gave Sasha, Dennis (her partner), and I a lift to the Metro.


Dennis asked how things went with the Partner; also if I'd left one in the US.

Some language troubles.

"Say it in English then! I speak it well."


Dennis and I rode on the Metro together -- had the chance to chat some. (and I got to learn his name again…)

Interesting: Seems we both came to Moscow for Dance and School


**********


Liga Pap


Saw Nichols (who is also leaving soon!!!); Meraz; Mowery; Natasha; and Don Nachos.

*In An Affected, Trying to Catch Natasha's Attention, Voice* "Oh! Oh! It's my FIRST Girlfriend!"

Me - "Shut up! Are you TRYING to get me into trouble?!?!!?"


Fun night, in general.

"If it's not taken care of, then come find me -- I will exorcise your demons."

"Is *that* what they are calling it nowadays?! = O_o = "


Belgian Violet Candies


"Why aren't you over there, protecting your girlfriend?"

"She told me to come stand over here!"

"Do you want *me* to go protect her?"

"Yeah, ok."

(There was a drunk, drunk, drunk Russian guy imposing on Natasha. She didn't want the guys to get involved with him -- so I just came and sat between them, and doted on her.)


Enjoyed sharing food and a good conversation with Meraz. =^__^=


Breadstick Capades -- Slapped Mowery (Sorry Mowery! ... But you were asking for it!!)


Got a ride home (Thank you!!)


**********


Music, then bed.


Journal 47 - Tryouts

Journal 47


10-12-10


Went to the studio early, so that I could practice, since Larissa wanted to look at Roma and I after the group lesson.


Nikita (one of the little boys in the studio) brought his Rubik's Cube, and had me solve it! Ha ha. Also, everyone loves my water bottle -- well, the Platypus bag that Mulzoff was awesome enough to give me! Also, they love my big, metal-ribbed Dragon fan. Ha ha -- what a stir it caused!


**********

Group lesson with Roma.


All went OK - not great, not terrible. His lead is a little high -- and I feel like I want someone stronger, physically, there. And a little shorter.


Was supposed to talk to Larissa afterwards, after she talked to him; he did talk to her, but then Larissa decided to leave, so I'll have to wait until tomorrow.


Roma said, in general, he was pleased - but he also had two other girls he called to try-out with. So, potentially I'll hear from him, potential not.


Realized I left my legwarmers at the studio. =>_<= They're probably gone. Like my jacket. *sigh*


Still no word from Vitaly. :|


Journal 46 - Partner? For Me?

ournal 46


10-11-10


Late for practice! Almost didn't go. Got caught up in Music.


Things did not feel good. = O_o=


*****


Larissa called me -- even though I'd walked RIGHT BY her!!!


… She may have found me a partner!! She's going to try us out tomorrow.


As we were exchanging information, she was saying to herself, "I'm so smart! I'm so good!" At having found someone for me. Ha ha ha.


"Our Katya speaks Russian very well!"



One, two bits of progress at the end of the night. Hopefully it stays through to the future.


Lucky for me, there was another lesson going on -- got to actually have 2 hrs of practice, even though I was late.


*****


Chatting with Sasha - practicing in English


Introduced me to her mum, "She's our polyglot!!!!"

"I'm sorry I thought you were younger!"


Getting boys' names! Andrei (who used to dance with Yana) and Sasha (who dances with Nastëna!). I'm gonna get there. And I *think* Anton dances with Pretty-Black-Haired Katya.


Journal 45 - Plasticine Is AWESOME!

Journal 45


10-10-10


Hip is still oddly sore


Got up for breakfast/lunch - talked about the Peppers with Elena -- then she said, "I thought you didn't like the pie either!"


I told her she was quite wrong -- it was DELICIOUS!!! One could describe it as a very "wet" or "soft" cake -- it's really just amazing.


Chicken Run and Wallace and Gromit.


"They're gonna kill themselves!" // "... Wanna watch?" // "... Yeah, alright."
"It's Poultry in motion!!"
"Me 'ole life flashed before me eyes! ... It was really boring..."
"I don't want to be a pie! ... I don't like gravy!"


Vitaly should be back today - I wrote him, like he asked, and he said he'll write me later.


Off for practice later.


Journal 44 - Space Museum and International Relations

Journal 44


10-9-10


Hip is oddly sore from sitting and working… Whole area!


Space Museum


TV People - Arsenal - Russia Vs. Macedonia

I always wondered who got to be on those "man on TV" bits!


Top of the Escalator - "Hello!" -- Curt, "Zdravstvuite."


At the Museum

Ride

Standing in line

Where do we get tickets from?

Cafe

Brother holding her up to order

Hand RIGHT into the dish… whoops


"I'm tired and cranky!"


12 year old Andrei on the Metro - "Are you English?" "What's her name??!?'


Back to Embassy -

Movie with Skee - met the new Gunny

Ruined Mowery trying to sneak up on me

Off for a walk on New Arbat

"Why don't they say hi!? I'm gonna change that!"

"You might try in their language…"

"I did! So now I'll try it in mine!"


Met up with Kathy; new place; Lewis joined us; then Mowery and Natasha, and we headed over to Liga.


Nice evening


Got home around 3 AM

Stuffed Peppers… Eek… But a pie/cake that looks amazing!!! I'll try it tomorrow.


Journal 43 - I Haven't Written For HOW Long?!

Journal 43


10-8-10


Thought I hadn't written only for a few days… I was wrong!!! Thank goodness for the technology that earmarks when we were doing stuff… Photos, chat logs, Facebook statuses… *laughs* Just helped me recreate the last week and a half for my journal!!!!


*****


tonight, I was late to practice, and my body was so tuckered out, I dont' think it did much good anyway. *laughs*


Except for the part where I ran into a group of my friends, and a newer boy I haven't spoken much with. He asked me how old I was, and when I responded, "21... In a week, 22," he and my friend Nastëna's partner flipped out!!! N's partner thought I was FOURTEEN!!! Ha ha ha. Oh, Life.


**********


Finally watched some of Tango. Bed. Museum tomorrow!


MK

2:36 AM


Journal 42 - Tolerance and Racism; Exhaustion; Partners

Journal 42


10-7-10


Class with Russians - "take a decision" -- should be "make" a decision. Interesting.


American Club

Tolerance, Racism

"Mosque at Ground Zero" Debate

"We get a lot of latent racism, that's taught to us through actions, that we then connect the dots with. Not because anyone is saying it."

"What do you feel when you see a black person?"

"Cultural Imperialism?" -- You want them to talk like a White person?

"This whole conversation, and the examples we've used, would be different, if there were even one person not "white"ish here.


'You can't say Jew?' -- "Oh, God, no!"


***********


Off to dance -- ran into Liza and Zhenya/Vova?? (Crap, I still don't know the boys' names!!!) Had a fun time going to the studio with them. Liza said she wished she could speak in English, like I can in Russia. I always feel like that is such a compliment. Told her I would practice with her, if she wanted.


"What time is it?" "What did you do with your coach in your last lesson?" -- Synonym for "to do" -- need to ask about it again.


*****


Practice --


Nobody found my jacket. And it wasn't there. :( Masha wasn't there though, so maybe Vitaly texted her, or she picked it up on her own. If Vitaly did text her, he certainly didn't tell me about it.


A little frustrating at first -- felt better yesterday; trying to discover how my body needs to work during spins; where to counter itself, how to come *out* of the spins properly; find balance, etc. And to *relax!* Artem did once tell me, if I couldn't figure out how to do that (relax in my body, and quit fighting myself/being tense/heavy) I'd never get any better than I was then. It's coming along -- but it's still a problem.


Eventually, I got to the point where I was so tired, and a bit frustrated, I just, "let go." I basically went to do an exercise, but "half-assed," which is to say, instead of trying to think about every little thing I should have been doing, I relaxed through my body, and went about it, as if I didn't care. What a difference!!! I finally understood what Larissa meant, when I once overheard her say to a pair, "You dance better when you are tired -- you finally relax, and you aren't fighting yourself!" -- That crazy "fast foot work/turns" exercise that Vitaly gave me -- I finally felt like I was doing it right! Namely, I had that crazy kind of rotation and speed in my spins, that hadn't been there before. It basically made my night.


*****


Caught Larissa -- asked about partner -- hadn't thought much about it yet -- asked Oleg Olega (sp?) if he had any idea -- "Hadn't thought about it yet." "Well, think about it! -- How old are you?" "21 -- about to be 22." "21." (with one of those knowing smiles)


*****


Walked back to the Metro with Katya (and Anton?); Yana, and I don't know his name… It's such a problem! I know the boys' faces, but not their names!! And Yana is dancing with someone new, I think because age dictated her partner move up, and she is not allowed to yet.


Neways, it's tough sometimes, hanging in the group, because I don't always understand everything that is said. It's weird, because on a day-to-day basis, I do understand most things nowadays, so long as it's not über technical, or something -- but it appears that either there's more slang, more words I don't' know, or less enunciation, or *something* going on -- and I can't always figure it out. Which makes me not want to talk. Eek.


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Up until 4:30. Goodness Gracious...